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The Profitable Means for Naughty Children

Actually, the only memory I have of being a Cub Scout was trying to get my hat back. That was all I did. Run back and forth at my bus stop going "Quit it."

When you are dealing with rebellious babies in a rebellious phase, don't take head-on approaches which will only make the situation worse.

Be humorous to reduce the intensity and severity. For example, you ask the baby to bath in the bathtub, but he doesn't like, if you forcibly hold him into the tub, or reprimand him about it, and let him have a bath, then things are bound to become very bad. At such time, you may as well try to be humorous to the baby, "The bath water is ready, let's see who is faster. Tell your bottom to go to the bathtub." These words different from usual ones give baby a fresh feeling and he would like to accept parents' advice easily.

Let the baby relax his vigilance. If the baby says no to everything, you can provide him with some ridiculous choice what will lead him to say no repeatedly. At this time, he will relax vigilance and focus on these ridiculous questions. As a result, you can find the opportunity to ask him go where you want him to go, or what you want him to do.

Change tasks into interesting games. All babies like games. I believe that he will be more willing to accept if tasks are changed into games. For instance, it always wet trousers because of the reluctance to go to toilet. When you suppose it's time for toilet, you could lift it and say:" now I am shouldering this gun to toilet to let it fire the bullet." Such advice would make your baby forgets his reluctance and go with you willingly. So going to the toilet becomes a game that your baby would not reject.

Let the baby accept the task voluntarily. Parents make a demonstration action, but simply do not ask him to do; he will produce imitation desire due to curiosity.

Make use of babies' rebellion. When you want the baby to do something, tell him to do the opposite, which turns out that he actually does what you want.

And you must look at baby's eyes when you say the mission. He will know you are not joking with him when you give him the mission seriously. So he will not say no freely.

Cold your baby. If the baby did not heed the recommendations of their parents, do not say to him to remove the parent’s attention and let him feel very boring. Later, he will know it is not the best way to attract attention, so he will try to change.

Babies around two years old like doing things by himself. Thus when the baby says no, try to encourage him to use this opportunity to show his abilities. He will do it willingly. If there is a little brother or a little sister at home, encourage your baby to be a good example, he would try to play this role. When mom speaks, "Can you show your younger brother how to feed yourself?" the baby will be happy to show his younger brother how he feed himself.

When you want the baby to do a matter, you'd better give him two choices: one is the thing you want him to do, the other is the thing he doesn’t like to do. Usually the baby chooses the former.


Posted: 04:22, 2010-Feb-25
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